Winds of Change

11990377_1128763110485945_517623526167474225_nA lot has happened over the last week! My Mom, Dad, and Sarah all came out to visit Gwen, me, and the boys (well, okay, they mostly came out to see the boys!). We had a lot of fun just spending time catching up and taking care of William and James, though my Mom and Sarah did have a lot of fun going shopping at the Kittery outlets. As a result of their well-timed visit, my family was on hand for my promotion to Lieutenant Commander on the 1st of September. I had been selected for the rank last fall, but I didn’t actually put it on until last week. It feels good to finally be wearing it!

The other big piece of news is that I have received my next orders. I am going to a job at the Pentagon, which means our next move is right around the corner. Gwen and I are planning on hitting the road sometime in the middle of October, so that I can start my new job in November. So, it looks like it is back to Northern Virgina for us! Gwen and I are both really pleased to be going to this job, as it puts us close to Gwen’s family. The good news is that based on the time of year we are moving, we should avoid the worst of both the hot and the cold weather, as well as having enough time to get settled before the holidays hit. Plus, we will have some flexibility with the movers, since it will be off the peak moving season.

Welp, I have a squalling baby to attend to. Until next time!

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Flights of Fantasy

Fantasy_vs._Sci-FiHello again! This time around I wanted to spend a few minutes talking about a relaxation I had recently. Specifically, I suddenly noticed that all of a sudden I seemed to be watching, reading a lot of fantasy books and movies/tv shows. This struck me as odd; ever since I was a kid I always considered myself to be a science-fiction kind of guy.

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Busy Busy!

0170a82000ea6b181acb0bd92146aec3fa9479da93Hello everyone! I apologize for the lack of updates recently. As

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Two Weeks and Counting…

Happy 4th of July!

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William and James are now two weeks old. They are both continuing to do really well. They are still at Wentworth-Douglas hospital in Dover, NH. Gwen and I have been spending most nights with them, to help the nurses look after them and work on their feeding ability. They are both doing well at that for babies their age (36 weeks now!), but William is doing a little bit better than James at the moment. There is a chance that William might be ready to be released by the end of the week if he keeps up his progress! However, they won’t come home until they both are, so it might be a bit longer than that before we bring them home.

I also went back to work this week, so naturally I had a lot of stuff to catch up on (my email in-box had over 1,000 messages in it!). Thanks to that, and the fact that my sister Sarah and brother in law Chris were here visiting, meant that the last week has been a bit of a whirlwind. Still, Gwen and I were able to make time to visit with Sarah and Chris, and to see the fireworks show in Portsmouth last night. I even got to spend a couple of hours at a game store near the hospital! All in all, we are having a very blessed 4th of July holiday.

As always, here are some more pictures:

 

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One Week Old!

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It’s hard to believe, but William and James are a week old already! And what a whirlwind week it as been, too. The boys were safely transferred to Wentworth-Douglas hospital in Dover, NH on Thursday, which is a MUCH easier trip for Gwen and me to make. More importantly, the environment at WD is much nicer; the boys are in a private room, meaning it is quieter and much more private. Plus, Gwen and I can even sleep there in the room with them.

William and James are continuing to do great. They are both gaining weight, and are off all support with the exception of a feeding tube. They are also still being kept in isolettes to help regulate their body temperatures. So, the biggest hurdles between them and coming home are their ability to feed on their own and stay warm without a climate controlled box. Gwen and I have been working with them daily towards these goals, and they are making progress. However, it is impossible to say when they will be finally ready; probably another couple of weeks at least. Here are some more pictures:

 

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Twins Update

Hello everyone!

William with Mom & Dad

William with Mom & Dad

The last few days have been hectic, but overall things have been going very well for William and James. James came off of his CPAP machine on Monday, and has stayed off of it since. They have both been getting a little jaundiced, but are improving after spending the day under a UV light. Even better, both of them have been able to keep their feeds down, meaning that they no longer require IV fluids. This means that they have improved enough to be safely transfered to abother hospital that is closer to Kittery! Gwen and I are really excited about that, as it means it will be much easier for us to visit William and James. They will be moved to one of two hospitals tomorrow morning; we don’t know which one yet for sure. The final decision will be based on bed availability at each one in the morning.

My Mom and Dad, as well as Gwen’s Mom, have been out here to support me and Gwen through this whole process. It has been great to have their help, as well as to watch them meet their grandsons for the first time! My Mom and Dad are heading back to Indiana today; their visit seemed like it was over before it began! However, their return will allow my Sister and Brother-in-law to come out, so that’s good. Aunt Sarah is chomping at the bit to see her new nephews ;).

I’ll leave you all with some more photos:

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The Twins Are Here!

Happy Fathers’s Day!

Yesterday, Gwen gave me the most amazing Father’s Day gift I could ever ask for; our sons! Without further ado, allow me to introduce the newest additions to the Rucker family:

Baby William

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Born: 20 June 2015, 1000

Weight: 4 pounds, 5 oz.

Lengthe: 17 and 3/4 inches

Baby James

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Born: June 20, 2015, 1020

Weight: 4 pounds, 4 oz.

Lengoth: 17 inches

Path Ahead

William and James are both doing well, but are going to be in the Natal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) for a while. This is due to the fact that they were born at 34 weeks, and still need help breathing and eating (the small mask on James’ face is a CPAP machine that aids his breathing some). We don’t know how long the boys will have to stay in the NICU; most likely they will be there until their original due date, which is 29 July. For now, that is what Gwen and I are planning on. If they are able to come home earlier, that will be a bonus! In the mean time, the will be at the hospital in Boston. That will make it a little inconvenient for us, as Gwen will be released from the hospital tomorrow. After that, we will be on or own for lodging and transportation. Rather than try to commute all the way from Kittery each day (which is about an hour and a half each way) we are looking into staying at a hotel. As one might expect, the hotels close to the hospital are quite expensive, so we will probably stay at one that is about 30 minutes away instead.

Additional Pictures

Here is a gallery of pictures I’ve taken the last couple of days. Until next time!

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Twins Update

IMG_0954Things are moving along rapidly! Gwen and the boys are continuing to do well, though Gwen has been getting steadily less comfortable as William and James get larger. We are now up to no less than 3 doctors visits a week, with non-stress heart checks on Mondays and Fridays and trips down to Boston for ultrasounds and OB/GYN visits. Suffice to say, we are staying busy! The plan remains for Gwen to be induced during the first week of July, though we have not nailed down the exact day just yet. In the mean time, I’ve been working on trying to help Gwen stay caught up with the housework, and complete a few projects that will help prepare for the boys’ arrival. We are getting close! I can hardly wait.

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Main Guns, Fire!

shot-15.05.30_17.27.38-0040Hard to believe it is June already! Gwen and I have had a busy couple of weeks, which is why I haven’t gotten around to an update here recently. Things are continuing to go well with Gwen’s pregnancy, though we are now having more frequent doctor’s visits. So, that is keeping us busy! When I’m not working or helping Gwen, I’ve been playing a few games. The screenshot above is from the previously-mentioned World of Warships game that allows players to fight battles with WWI and WWII-era battleships. I’ve been having a blast, and even more so since the recent patch hit that enabled players to have access to US battleships! In fact, the screen shot above is of my USS NEW YORK, getting ready to unleash some 14″ fire on one of my victims! Other than that, though, I haven’t had a lot of time for much else. I have seen a few movies recently; Gwen and I watched Big Hero 6, for example, which had a lot more emotional depth to it than I expected. I also watched a few good war movies while on duty, including Fury and American Sniper. Both of these movies were incredible, though I definitely have to give the nod to American Sniper for the simple fact that it is a true story. Another film I saw recently wasn’t a movie, but rather a short documentary about the people killed during WWII. Truly staggering stuff:

Speaking of WWII,

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Memorial Day

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What a week it has been! Jim and Debbie have been visiting Gwen and me here in Portsmouth this whole time. I actually took leave Thursday, Friday, Saturday, and today, to have some more time to spend with them. Thursday was Gwen’s appointment day down in Boston, and we took a moment to stop by the USS CONSTITUTION to see it in dry dock. The ship will be high and dry for a few years, as she is painstakingly repaired for another few decades in the water.

IMG_0799Friday was my birthday, and I had a great one! I had a lot of people stop by my Facebook page to wish me a Happy Birthday, which was very nice. We all went out to see Avengers 2, which was an awesome movie. And finally, I came home to some delicious ice cream cake from Dairy Queen and some very nice presents. Saturday, Jim and I drove down to Fall River, MA to check out Battleship Cove, home of the USS MASSACHUSETTS. We had a great time spending the better part of a day tromping around the innards of the great battleship! It was also a very timely visit, given that it is Memorial Day weekend. As a naval officer, nothing brings home the hardship, sacrifice, and courage of those who have gone before you in the Naval Service like visiting a museum ship, especially a museum ship like the MASSACHUSETTES that has been transformed into a memorial to those who gave the ultimate sacrifice. I took a ton of pictures, which I have put into a gallery at the end of this post.

After we got home yesterday, Jim and I also tried out a new game I picked up not long ago, called Star Wars Armada. I gotta say, this is an amazing game! The miniatures are incredible and the game is fun and fairly easy to pick up. While the range of available ships is somewhat limited at the moment, there will be more coming out in July that will really flesh out the line, including the Imperial Star Destroyer and Admiral Ackbar’s flagship, Home 1. Just to be clear, we are talking about a game where you have Star Destroyers, Blockade Runners, X-Wings, TIE Fighters, and more all flying around the board and battling it out. What is not to like?!

IMG_0010So, yeah, it has been a busy, but very fun week. Unfortunately, it is back to work tomorrow for me, as I have duty. Oh well! In the mean time, here are those pictures of Battleship Cove I mentioned. Until next time!

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